The Prince and the Dressmaker by Jen Wang tells the story of Frances, a young seamstress from Paris, and Sebastian, the crown prince of Belgium. With Frances’s bold designs, Sebastian transforms into the beautiful and elegant Lady Crystallia, allowing Sebastian to take the streets of Paris by storm and Frances to have her designs proudly showcased. However, both of them must keep Lady Crystallia’s true identity a secret as the world is not ready for a prince who likes dressing as a princess.
What is the foundation of Frances and Sebastian’s immediate friendship?
She’s a seamstress, and he is the crown prince of Belgium. There are countless stories that start similarly, with this odd-couple dynamic of clashing social status and upbringing. And yet, despite the tried and true conventions of trope - playful annoyance, misunderstandings, the teachings of compromise - Frances and Sebastian hit it off pretty quickly. It is obvious to see that there is more beneath the employer-employee relationship that both parties thought this would be. Sebastian had no way of knowing the bold seamstress he hired was a young woman around his age, with big ideas and even bigger dreams. Frances could only have had an inkling that her mystery employer was wealthy and certainly a woman because was there any other possibility? Once the literal veil fell, a stronger force fostered their relationship.
Despite the sudden surprise of their true identities, particularly Sebastian’s, both he and Frances realized they are both on a journey of self-fulfillment, of outwardly expressing the beauty they both hold within. Designing and wearing beautiful gowns is the perfect way of achieving this. On pages 45 and 46, Frances explains to Sebastian what initially drew her to designing. She was initially drawn to the beauty of the poster which sparked her imagination. Her desire to see more beauty in the world nurtured her creativity to produce that beauty for herself. The eventual realization that people can actually produce beauty for a living then brought that dream into a more actual sense. This is a path she could strive for. This perfectly coincides with Sebastian’s desires of expressing who he is and of breaking free of gender norms and expectations through the achievement of beauty. Beauty is both the means and the goal for both of them.
The kind of strong, sudden bond between Frances and Sebastian is exemplary of another trope-like dynamic: the friendship between queer men and non-queer women. While some might argue that it borderlines on cliché, the fact of the matter is that many queer men owe a great deal to wonderful women who not only accepted them for who they were, but also helped them express who they were without fear. By having found Frances, Sebastian is able to wear the clothes that bring him comfort, confidence and freedom from the expectations set by his status. In turn, Frances found a patron for her creative aspirations and a clearer path to her dreams; however, in a less transactional way, she also found a nurturing friend that whole-heartedly appreciates her for who she is.